Leave, withdrawal and long absence are not the same thing
The three have very different consequences in the school's records, and what you almost always want is an approved leave of absence.
A leave of absence is a pause that the school has formally approved. The record is kept, and the school usually sets a return date and conditions. Schools call it different things, from leave of absence to suspended enrollment, so follow the term used in the handbook.
Withdrawal formally ends your child's enrollment. The school issues transfer or exit documents, and returning means applying for admission again from the beginning. Refunds of fees already paid follow the school's refund rules; disputes are covered in tuition refund disputes.
Long absence is simply not attending, with no paperwork at all. Schools have attendance requirements, and exceeding them can mean the year's grades are not credited, the child is not promoted, or the seat is treated as abandoned. For foreign children, schools may also have reporting duties on attendance.
Many parents assume a word with the class adviser counts as notice, but an informal message is not a leave application. Short sick leave of a few days or a week or two follows the normal absence procedure with a note and a medical certificate. Anything longer than the school's limit, or a term or more, needs a formal leave. If the issue is that your child is refusing to go to school, read when a child refuses to attend first, because a leave may not be the right answer.
When in doubt, ask the registrar which category your plan falls into before acting, and get the answer by email.
How to apply and what counts as done
Work through these steps in order. At the end you should be holding a written approval issued by the school, and nothing less.
- Read the handbook rules first. Ask the registrar for the leave provisions: the maximum length, whether mid-year leave is allowed, whether the seat is held, and what is required to return.
- Write a formal request. Include your child's name and grade, the reason, the expected start and end dates and your contact details, signed by a parent or guardian. Be truthful, but you do not need to give private family details.
- Attach supporting documents. For medical leave, include the doctor's diagnosis and recommendation to rest. For family reasons, a short explanation is normally enough.
- Clarify the money. Ask whether fees are paused, how amounts already paid are handled, and whether there is a charge to hold the seat. Get the answers in writing, because these rules differ from school to school.
- Get the written approval. It should state the leave dates, the conditions for return and whether the seat is held. Do not let your child stop attending until you have it.
At the same time, ask for a statement of your child's current grades or progress. If your child studies elsewhere during the leave, or you later decide to transfer, it will be useful. The transfer records themselves are explained in getting Form 137 and transfer records. Keep copies of everything you submit, with the date you submitted it.
If the school is slow to reply, follow up in writing every few days. A request sitting unanswered does not protect your child, and the approval date can matter later.
How a leave affects your child's visa
Whether a leave affects the visa depends entirely on the status your child holds in the Philippines. Check this before you submit the leave request, not after.
Children staying as dependents of a parent, for example on a parent's work visa, usually do not depend on being enrolled, so a leave does not normally affect their status. If your child goes back to China during the leave, though, watch the validity of the visa and the alien registration card, and the rules for leaving and re-entering. These follow current Bureau of Immigration requirements.
Children on a special study permit usually hold a permit tied to a specific school and period of study. A leave means they are not actually studying, so ask the school's officer for foreign students whether the permit must be reported, paused or reissued on return. The Bureau of Immigration's current guidance decides.
Secondary students on a student visa are in a similar position: the school has reporting duties on enrollment status, and a leave may change the visa position. The general logic is set out in student visas after leaving school, but for younger students follow the school's and the bureau's specific answers.
The rule is simple: settle how the status will be handled before submitting the leave. Avoid a situation where your child has left school but nobody has dealt with the visa, which makes returning or re-entering the country much harder. If you are unsure what status your child holds, have a qualified agency check it.
Note the answer you receive, the date and the name of the officer, and keep it with the leave approval.
What to do during the leave
A leave is not a period when nothing needs attention. Three things make the return much smoother.
Keep learning on track. If your child is in China or recovering at home, try to follow the Philippine school's syllabus at least for English reading and math. Many schools assess students on return, and a large gap can lead to a lower grade. If that happens, the re-assessment approach in being placed a grade lower applies here too.
Keep evidence. For medical leave, keep treatment records and a doctor's note clearing your child to return. If your child attends classes in China during the leave, keep proof of that study, which can help the school judge progress and support a request to keep the original grade.
Watch the dates. Write down the return deadline in the approval, the enrollment period for the next school year and your child's visa expiry. Confirm return arrangements with the school a month or two in advance. A common mistake is assuming the seat is held indefinitely, only to find it was released to a waitlisted student under the school's rules.
If during the leave you decide your child will not come back, formally withdraw, collect the report cards and school records, and deal with your child's status in the Philippines at the same time. Leaving it unresolved creates problems later, both with schools and with immigration, and it is much harder to sort out from abroad.
A short email to the class adviser every month or two also helps, so the school remembers your child is coming back.
Returning: the four usual sticking points
Contact the school one to two months before the planned return and submit the return request it asks for. Four problems come up again and again, and most of them can be avoided with early contact.
No seat available. If the approval did not say the seat would be held, your child may have to wait for a place. Confirm early and keep a second school in mind just in case.
Grade level. After a long leave, or one that crossed the end of the school year, the school may ask your child to repeat or sit an assessment. If your child would normally have been promoted, use earlier grades and proof of study during the leave to ask for an assessment rather than an automatic repeat. The approach is the same as in when a child is held back.
Health clearance. After medical leave, schools usually require a doctor's note confirming your child can return, and sometimes an assessment by the school nurse as well. Arrange the doctor's visit in good time.
Status documents. On return the school checks that your child's visa or permit is valid, and a special study permit may need to be issued again. If anything has expired, the status must be sorted out before the school can complete enrollment.
Treat the return like a small admission: the written request, grade records, health clearance and status documents prepared together, well before the first day back. It is far easier than collecting papers on the first morning of term.
Ask for written confirmation of the grade and start date once the return is agreed.
How Yixing can help
The leave and the return are academic decisions for the school, and parents simply follow the handbook. The parts that tend to go wrong are the status and documents attached to enrollment: what happens to the visa and alien registration when a child goes home during a leave, how a special study permit is restored on return, and the authentication of report cards and records if your child transfers instead of returning.
Yixing can check your child's current status and its validity, work out how a leave or a trip home affects it, prepare the documents and authentications needed for return or transfer, and remind you of the formalities when your child leaves and re-enters the country. See our settling-in and family services.
Visa-related steps follow the Bureau of Immigration's current written guidance, and school matters follow each school's handbook and the registrar's written answers. We do not promise any approval by a school or a government office, and we cannot make academic decisions on a school's behalf.
If the plan has changed from a pause to not coming back, withdraw formally and deal with your child's status early; see after leaving school.
Yixing International Travel Agency is registered with the Philippine SEC (CS202009551), holds Bureau of Immigration accreditation (BI Accreditation No. CA-202624381-1, valid until 2027-06-30), and is accredited by DOLE and the PRA.
The earlier you raise the question, the more options remain open, especially if your child plans to travel during the leave and needs to re-enter on the same status.
Bring the leave approval and passport copies when you contact us.
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